Parenting is Easy Podcast
Welcome to "Parenting is Easy, Said No One Ever," the podcast that takes a refreshing and humorous look at the rollercoaster ride otherwise known as parenthood! Please join us as we delve into the honest, unfiltered realities of raising children, where we embrace the messiness, mess-ups, and tribulations that come with the territory.
My name is Chananya [cha-nan-ya, when saying the "CH", pretend you have something stuck in your throat] Abraham, psychotherapist, parent to 5 amazing children, and parent advocate of embracing imperfections! This podcast offers a relatable and inclusive space for parents from all different cultures, nationalities, and religions. We believe that parenting is a universal journey, and it's okay to admit that we don't always have our s**t together. Please feel free to share tips and tricks that work for you and the best ways to hide that white wine or mixed drink without your kids knowing.
Each episode features engaging discussions and heartfelt stories from fellow parents who are navigating the unpredictable, yet amazing terrain of raising children. Our guests, ranging from “experts” to everyday moms and dads, share their personal experiences, insights, and strategies for surviving the challenging yet rewarding moments of parenthood.
But don't worry, we don't take ourselves too seriously. Laughter is the best medicine, and we sprinkle our conversations with plenty of humor, relatable anecdotes, and the occasional drink recipe. After all, a good sense of humor can be a lifesaver when facing those unexpected parenting curveballs.
Whether you're a first-time parent, a seasoned pro, or someone preparing for the wonderful chaos of parenthood, "Parenting is Easy, Said No One Ever" is here to remind you that it's normal to "mess up" and that perfection is not the goal. In fact, we believe that if you’re NOT messing up at least occasionally, YOU’RE DOING SOMETHING WRONG. Together, we celebrate the beauty in imperfection, embrace the shared struggles, and provide a supportive community where laughter and learning go hand in hand.
Tune in to our podcast and join the conversation as we navigate the twists and turns of parenting together. Remember, you're not alone in this crazy journey!
Parenting is Easy Podcast
Ep 22: Adoptive Hearts: Exploring the Realities of Building Families through Adoption with Anna Maria
## The Road to Adoption
The road to becoming a parent through adoption often starts from facing a harsh reality - the inability to conceive. This was the circumstance for Anna Maria DiDio, author of the book, "Love at the Border," which sheds light on her personal experiences behind the scenes of international adoption. Her journey to motherhood started from tackling the ups and downs of infertility treatments.
## An Instant Parent But a Gradual Bond
Becoming a parent happens instantaneously at the moment of finalizing an adoption. Yet, forming a connection and cultivating a bond with the adopted child is a process that takes time. For Anna Maria, the transition from being a mother of one to a mother of two was not instant. It took years and a process of understanding adoption through the lens of grief, loss, and trauma.
## Adoptive Parenting Amid Diverse Personalities
Dealing with diverse personalities within the same family is an integral part of parenting, let alone adoptive parenting. Anna Maria was blessed with two daughters who, despite being raised in the same home, showcased distinctly different personalities. Her older daughter -- a biological child, was an A-class student and a music enthusiast. Conversely, her younger daughter – the adopted one, continually wrestled with the English language and had a keen flair for avoiding homework like the plague.
## Looking into the Rear-view Mirror
Reflecting on her journey of parenthood through adoption, Anna Maria wished she understood earlier the impact of trauma and grief in the process of adoption. The recognition of the primal wound in adopted children and the notion of adoption starting with grief and loss changed her parenting approach for the better. As Anna Maria put it - honesty, networking with other adoptive families, and seeking professional help when necessary are the key components of a successful adoption journey.
## Advocacy for Adoptive Families
Anna Maria's journey has not only made her a seasoned parent but also an advocate for adoptive families. Her recommendations for families considering adoption include networking with other adoptive families, conducting thorough research about the impacts such as trauma, grief, and loss in adopted children, honesty within the family dynamics, and seeking professional help when necessary.
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